Going back to the
childhood days, do you remember being in control of everything you owned?
Whether your bedroom, your clothes, your toys and more, just everything was
just yours and it was your decision whether you share something with others or
not. You accomplished goals or strategised ways out of innocence for the things
you desired, manipulating things and loved ones as per your wishes. Would you
be happy if something went against your wish? Basically the factor to control
our lives and situations was inculcated into us since our early days, only
after dwelling with the society did some of us lose the control spark within.
Ofcourse some of us have the control streak within and others crave for it, it
is definitely important for us to be in control of our emotions, thoughts,
wishes, desires and even situations.
Every single person
around the world has a unique set of goals, values, inspirations and beliefs
that make us individuals carrying different perspectives and roles in life. Progressing
with life, these are important elements slightly altering the core of our
existence and making us adjust to situations in a manner that allows us to gain
knowledge and patience from the new experiences and situations that we endure.
Life is a
roller-coaster and at times it might drift peacefully and swiftly like the
glistening waters or make you want to swim across the shore and save yourself
from the ferocious struggles that life offer. It is crucial to have control
over anger nd not lose your temper when things go wrong, similarly ensure the
fact that when things go in the right direction, you dont let success get to
your head and hamper things in the future for you.
No, this is
definitely not about the control over needs, it holds a deeper meaning to it,
it is basically the sense of control on themselves – when a person is in
control of their senses, he is in control of every situation. In persuasion to
this, sense of control ia probbly the deepest need a person requires and be comfortable
with it. Unless we have control over situations and ourselves, there is a deep
tension and discomfort to acquie the need of control and get ourselves and
situations soughted.
Success follows once you are in control of every
sitauation – every sitaution or action does not require a reaction – this
holds deep meaning to it.
Our world perceives
men to be in control of things whereas women to be controlled; although our
history proves that women are the strongest of all. They hold a deeper sense of
control on themselves handling every situation with the required patience. The
women in this era are flourishing as independent individuals and making the
world bow to them. Gone are the days, when women were bound to homes, the women
of today are creating their own history.
Apart from the men,
it is crucial for the women to think beyond boundaries and not be influenced or
forced by third person’s thought process and decisions. A woman has the rights
to take the smallest decisions based on her wishes and desires. The ability to
be independent has long been suppressed in our country, whereas it is important
to hold the zeal to survive on your own terms to be independent and control
situations. It is fundamentally important to hold yourself tight to achieve success
on your own terms.
At the end of the
day, it is exceedingly important to be self-sustained and handle things on your
own – securing your life and not letting it be influenced by someone else. It
is about who you are, what you believe in, nd what you want to be.
All the ladies out
there, trust yourselves and take control of your own life – the most empowering
thing to change your life quotient from “Happimess” to “Happiness”. Make your
own decisions, your choices, listen to your inner voice and not berate the
opinions of others.
